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Stuck in the Middle

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We drove to Kansas and the kids were in rare form... actually, so we're their parents.  They clean up well.  We went to a movie, the zoo, downtown and watched a little soccer.  If you would have told me when he was 16 that he would be building a LEGO pet house for his 4 year old daughter, I would not have believed it.  It was a hot muggy day, but we made it.  We also went to IHOP and met  Cliford the Big Red Dog.  Then it all falls apart. Todd offered me his ticket, which I did not take. Wes did not offer me his ticket, which I wouldn't have taken. I can't be the only one who can see that not offering it was selfish...and a long list of other words.  It was my idea, I put the plan in motion, without me, he never would have gone. He should have offered his ticket to me. He can't go back. He doesn't get to talk about the game with me. We move on. Another joyous event in a long l...
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Utah

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I left Atlanta to attend my nephew's wedding.  I told him that he needed a picture with his aunts.  My brother asked for a picture. He has made a lot of choices that have created distance from the rest of us. But we can take a picture.  On the plane there was an issue with the guy on our row of seats. I was watching both Mama Mia movies but looked up and this guy was crying. I asked if he was okay and needed a tissue. He did and dug one out of my bag and the other guy in our row and I started talking to him. I realized that he was 10 year old in a 37 year old body. We calmed him down and other than speaking too loud everything was fine.  When I was in the airport someone called me a hero. I didn't feel like a hero. I mean, let's face it, when we fall apart in public, we all need the same thing: a tissue someone to listen to us  and kind words.  Jesus said love everyone... Kindness begins with me... Utah was on fire....
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Atlanta

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When World Cup tickets went on sale in November I asked Wes and he didn't respond. So I asked Laura, Keith's mother in law, and she responded immediately.  Since we both had to fly, we picked Atlanta. She got some reasonable tickets and booked a trip.  We visited the Coke Museum and had a delightful time.  The Planetarium.  It was incredible.  It is extremely well put together and has some interesting inhabitants.  Dragon fish... We went to the Martin Luther King National Historic Monument.  It was peaceful.  I wish we had time for the tour of his house. We also visited the Human Rights Museum. Then it was off to see the Botanical garden. With the heat and humidity, things really grow.  Made a new friend.  They have an Orchid house. The colors are beautiful.  Another win for us....
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They are not all Winners

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It's been a week. Windy... Cranky men living in my house....Crazy allergies...you name it. I love the sky on my walks. Too windy most days, but got in a couple. I found this little bird egg and it made my heart happy.  The lady who planted this had moved, but it is a pretty reminder of her.  I finally had a night up myself. Wes went to Girls Camp for the night and Scott had an appointment in Twin. I took advantage and had brownies and milk for dinner. I had been to lunch and a movie with a friend so it was perfect. I'm leaving town in the morning and hope to have a great week.  Love, peace and happiness.... God bless us all....
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The Carolina Coast

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We went to the beautiful Oak Island.  It has lovely sandy beaches.  The skies were lovely. There were different birds than live on the West Coast.  Honestly, this pier was well built and well used.  The water was nice but the tide was too rough for me. I thought I could do it but it took me down.  The best part of this experience was the amount of shells at every beach we visited.  I would guess millions.  I follow Brenda Torrey Photography on Facebook and have learned a great deal about what kind of shells are there.   We went out early one morning. I was looking for turtle tracks, which I didn't see but I did see the Turtle ladies from Oak Island Sea Turtle Protection Program .  I love to listen as they post the baby turtles emerging from their nests and making their way towards the sea.  It wasn't crowded, the ...
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Wedding

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Our son Richard, was married this weekend in North Carolina.  It took place in a beautiful park near Winston Salem and Wes officiated. They are planning on a celebration where everyone is invited next Spring.  We also had a brunch afterwards. It was sweet.  I had hoped that Richard would take some time to be alone after his extremely difficult marriage with Ashley. But I've come to realize that he will never be alone. Ivy was one of his roommates after he left Ashley. I have felt in my heart that my mom helped them find each other. I'm not sure of how their relationship transpired, but they seem happy. They work as a team. They are very considerate of each other. They are fiscally responsible. They both love their families. They both see the same therapist...that's another story.  I'm extremely happy for them. Richard has been though so much with his first marriage. It was in a beautiful temple, where they were sealed t...
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